Kenyan Man, 26, Still In School Laments As Girlfriend Demands To Start Family: "I've Terrible Finances"

• A man is under pressure from his girlfriend to impregnate her after dating for four years, but he is not ready
• The 26-year-old confused man said he was still in school and not financially stable to take care of a child
• Several netizens advised the man to part ways with his girlfriend and let her get a child with another man, but he said he loved her dearly

A man has shared that he is under pressure from his girlfriend to sire a child with her, but he is not ready.

Are kids a priority in relationships?

In a post he shared on Reddit.co.me, the Kenyan man said he had dated his 24-year-old girlfriend for four years, and he was not financially stable to take care of a child.

The 26-year-old man revealed he was still in school and was confused about what to do, considering he loves his girlfriend a lot.

"I do not want a family anytime soon. Mainly due to financial reasons, as I'm still figuring things out. But she tells me how she's going to take care of the kid and all that. But that's not what I want. I would like a family at some point too, but not while I'm still in school with terrible finances," he said.

Reacting to the post, here is what netizens had to say:

Oceandepththinker said:

"Don't have kids when you're not ready."

Emotional_Network_12 said:

"Don't have kids because someone is pushing you to get one. Have kids when you are ready for them. This includes financially, emotionally and psychologically."

ZippoNare advised:

"Let her go get that kid with someone else."

MarcKiplagat said:

"Maybe she's already pregnant."

Untonyto said:

"She's found the perfect excuse to dump you."

Ok-Yak-6160 said:

"It's either she accepts your terms or nothing at all. You are only 26 ffs, kwani anataka mzae mtoto alafu akule nini? karatasi? By the way you should be very careful, anaezapata io ball without your knowledge ujipate umejifunga bure..let her wait hadi vitu zikue stable kwanza."

Actress says she doesn't want kids

To have children or not is a choice for everyone. Multi-talented actress and businesswoman Ebby Weyime left many praising her for her boldness and realness after stating that she did not want to have children.

Speaking in an interview with Mwalili TV, Ebby said she doesn't dislike kids but doesn't want to have them.

The bold actress said she has a lot of responsibilities and wouldn't want to add more to her plate.