- A 31-year-old US-based Indian bachelor is frustrated and almost giving up on love
- He said he was yet to find a partner to settle down with despite earning KSh 21,000,000 yearly, revealing his last relationship was four years ago
- Reacting to the 31-year-old's man's post, many netizens shared their similar experiences, urging him not to be in a hurry
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An Indian man living in the US has revealed he is struggling to find a partner despite being financially stable.
Man desperate for love
In a post he shared on Reddit.com, the man said he is frustrated as all his friends are happily married with families. He said the previous women he dated before were his close friends, and his last relationship was four years ago.
The single man said he has turned to the gym, where he spends much time relieving stress.
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"I'm at a decent job, earn around KSh 21,000,000 pa. Have wonderful friends, all of them married, am the last one standing. I envy all of them. They have families of their own. Even though I meet them quite often and have fun, I feel lonely at almost all times. I hit the gym to vent my sadness, fit enough, and have an active lifestyle, but it is just that I do not know how to pick up girls. All my previous girlfriends were my mutual friends, and I think I just got lucky there. But now, with all of my friends married, it feels like I am at a dead end," he said.
He asked for tips on approaching women, hoping to meet his missing rib.
"Do American girls even consider dating an Indian guy? How would you all suggest I approach if I like someone?" he posed.
Reacting to the man's post, many netizens shared their similar experiences, urging him not to be in a hurry.
FakeBeigeNails said:
"Yes, but it's very rare to see Indian families be accepting of other races other than white women or white men. I know this may be a stereotype, but it's just what I've seen of others and also what experienced when I was a child with them. I find some of your attractive, but I don't shoot my shot nor do I expect to be approached by you. Good luck!"
Appropriate-Neck-585 said:
"If you have the funds, you can have the fun."
InstaMastery said:
"I am in the same boat. 32. Almost 6 figures salary. You’re not alone. Following."
Joyfulcheese said:
"Have a life of your own. Having a partner isn't a prerequisite to enjoying life or having fun. I'm not saying you should give up entirely, but if you learn to have fun and enjoy life on your own, it'll put you in a much healthier place to meet someone but will also make you a lot more self-sufficient should it never happen."
Briomio said:
"Since you are Indian, have you considered an Indian matchmaker?
South-Run-7646 said:
"Yea, I'm a 6 foot 6 figure brown man reject too. This is the world we now live in, where brown dudes are just seen as subhuman dogs. Might as well get rich and rule the world ♂️."
Financially stable man says finding love is hard
In a similar story published on TUKO.co.ke, a Kenyan man elicited mixed reactions after disclosing that despite being rich, he was yet to find a woman to settle down with.
Sharing his story on Reddit.com, the man said he was lonely and regretted ignoring women to focus on his lie, and now, his mother is afraid he might not get married.
He said most of the DMs he receives from women are those after his money and not genuine love, making it hard for him to find true love.
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