Nakuru Lady, 30, Distressed As Boyfriend Dumps Her 6 Months Into Her Pregnancy: "Mum Doesn't Know"

• A Kenyan lady took to social media to ask for advice after her boyfriend dumped her despite being six months pregnant
• The 30-year-old Nakuru-based woman revealed they had dated for three and a half years when her man dumped her
• She said her boyfriend told her he did not want anything to do with her and was ready to take care of their kid
• The distressed woman said she was scared of telling her mother because she never wished to be a single mom

A Nakuru lady is in tears after her boyfriend impregnated her and dumped her.

Nakuru woman weeps after bae dumps her

Taking to Reddit.com, the 30-year-old was six months pregnant, and her Nairobi boyfriend does not want to be with her.

The lady said they had dated for three and a half years and she lives with her mother, and her income is not sustainable.

"My mother has not yet discovered that I am pregnant coz I don't have such a big bump, and I have been wearing oversized clothes ..just yesterday my boyfriend dropped me a bombshell and told me that he is not ready to be committed to me, but he's ready to take care of the child. I can't imagine the disappointment my mother will have of me when I tell her everything because I am the firstborn and it was not my wish to raise a baby as a single parent," the heartbroken lady wrote.

The lady, who lives near her boyfriend's parents, is contemplating storming their home and breaking the news after the man dumped her. She noted that their parents were not aware they were dating, and the sad story has taken a toll on her.

"I have not slept today. Been crying the whole night. Please, if anyone has ever been in my shoes, please advise on what I should do?" she wrote.

Reacting to the lady's post, below is what netizens had to say:

CalligrapherWitty950 said:

"Red flags everywhere, dating 3.5 yrs and showing no interest in marrying you. That guy has another babe in Nairobi."

SiriusFoot said:

"What a disgrace of a man. Was the pregnancy planned? Couples, if you don't plan on getting children/being committed to each other, there are IUDs. Still, what a disgrace of a man. I hope it works out well for you and the baby/He comes back to his senses."

Quantum_II advised:

"Approach the ninja like the terrorist he is. Mpatie ultimatum ya kuenda kwa wazazi wa both sides. Set the ball rolling, give him dates when he (and his crew) should come kwenu, na umshow your parent anaexpect mgeni date. Mkimaliza huko set date ya kwenda kwao. Go full terrorist mode na akibounce on any visit umwambie utapeleka huyo mtoto kwao akalelewe na mama yake. Force the ninja to act responsible in the short term but jipange to leave him ultimately juu huyo ni sure deadbeat."

Illustrious-Quit-962 said:

"Rule of thumb, do not carry before you marry, you have no business getting pregnant for a man who has not married you or at least asked your parents for your hand in marriage but what is done is done, sorry, I hope your boyfriend comes around and back to his senses. Talk to his family about it."

Man dumps pregnant lover

In a similar story, a Nigerian lady identified as Darasimi Oyewole lamented on social media after being dumped by her husband-to-be following her pregnancy.

Darasimi shared her WhatsApp chats with him on TikTok showing how he pestered her about lovem*aking till she finally gave in.

The man named Adedemeji Olawore pleaded with her to satisfy him, saying he needed to sleep with her as they were still going to walk down the aisle. Darasimi reminded him that the beauty of marriage is for the bed to be undefiled and that they should wait till after their wedding. Eventually, she gave in, and they made love more than once.

As seen in the chats, she one day confronted him that she was pregnant and was shocked that he denied putting her in a family way. He accused her of cheating on him and tagged her as a commoner who wanted to tarnish his image and family name.