Nairobi Man Shares Experience Dating Financially Stable Woman: "Wanafanya Kile Wanataka"

• At 32, Job Indeche has tried his hand at many relationships, hoping to find a lady he can settle down with
• For a long time, he had been dating women who didn't have money and had never paid any bills in their lives
• He has switched to financially stable women, and it is not a walk in the park as he had imagined it was going to be

Just as with many upwardly mobile young men in Kenya, Job Indeche, aka Bro Mfalme, has been looking for a lovely woman to marry, and so far, the journey has not been smooth.

Dated, broke girls

In an interview with TUKO.co.ke, the 32-year-old said he had been having one failed relationship after another with women who could not stand on their own two feet.

"I have been living with women who have never lived with a person or paid a bill in their lives," said Indeche.

Indeche, a father of two, said that he lives with a daughter, and when he starts having issues with these ladies, they tickle down to his child.

"Sometimes when you are a celeb, people think that you have money and you can't explain, so it causes issues," said Indeche.

"It was a blunder that kept repeating itself; it made me feel like a father to them instead of a lover," he shared.

Indeche is a father of two

So he thought that trying someone financially stable would be a much-needed change of pace.

Although Indeche did not feel like her father anymore, she presented new problems and a new dynamic to relationships as he knew them.

"She can go out anytime she wants since she has her own money; she can stay out and you cannot do anything about it since its her money," she said.

"It shouldn't be like that, once she is in a relationship she shouldn't stay out late at night as other men will start hitting on her and take her away," complained Indeche.

Holiday in Dubai

According to the graphics, video, and audio production expert, financially stable women also have a taste of the good things, so you have to look for a lot of money to care for them.

"For instance, they can tell you that we are going to Dubai and you have the pressure to look for the money," said Indeche.

"That is what makes men join wash wash so that they can meet the demands of the wealthy ladies," she added.

Indeche says it kept men from losing their ego

As he shared his story, Indeche also warned people not to allow themselves to be kept men, as it makes one lose their ego.

"When you don't have money in the relationship, then you lose your woman's respect," he said.

"Sometimes they will tell you I need KSh 250, 000 urgently and that time you don't have it, whether it is urgent or slowly," he said.

Indeche now wants financially stable women to understand that their men don't have as much money and help people without expecting anything in return.

Kenyan men share about dating rich women

In August 2023, a section of Kenyan men shared their mixed experiences dating financially independent women.

Some of the men said they had the best experiences, while others did not have great moments, describing their relationships as bondage.

Most of the men on Reddit.com claimed the women were daughters of prominent politicians and used to drive flashy cars.