Kenyan Man Says New Girlfriend Asked For Help With Daughter's KSh 100k School Fees: "I'm Not Ready"

• A Kenyan man was left at odds when his lover asked him to pay fees for her daughter, who she sired with another man
• The man claimed that he loved the woman and was ready to start a family with her until she brought up the issue
• The man disclosed that money was not the issue, but he was a firm believer that everyone should take care of their kids

A Kenyan man has ignited quite the discussion after he divulged that he was not ready to pay fees for his girlfriend's daughter.

Man not ready to pay fees

The man anonymously shared his story on Reddit, disclosing that he and his lover were in their late 20s. They both have daughters, and his kid was eight years old.

"We are in our late 20s, have dated for more than one year, and both of us have kids from previous relationships. I am 100% present in my daughter's life, pay her school fees and even spent the holidays with her. My daughter is eight years old."

He further divulged that he had plans to officiate their relationship and start a family, but something halted his plans.

The woman asked him to help foot her daughter's bill.

"This past few months, I have felt like we need to take things a notch higher, maybe start a family even. Her daughter is four years old.

But here is an issue. This week, she asked me to help with her daughter's school fees and sent me the fee structure of slightly more than 100K per year."

Should he help her pay fees?

The man noted that the problem was not the money, but he felt that every man should take care of their child.

"The thing isn't even about the money. I just feel that I am not ready to step up. I am in my child's life. I feel every man should take care of their cumzigo. As a rule, we don't talk about our past.

I know for sure that she loves me, but I also know that she is in contact with her baby daddy. He isn't a poor guy by any means. Will I be an a-hole if I tell her I am not ready? How should I approach this?"

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In a separate story, an anonymous Reddit user narrated how devastated he was after his beloved wife was given nine months to live.

He admitted that he did not know what to do without her and sought to make her last months memorable.

However, he was at a loss after she sought his permission to cheat on her ex one last time before dying.