Newlywed Woman Considering Divorcing Husband Over Unpleasant Habits: "He Smokes, Cries"

• A woman who had been married for four months thought of walking out of her marriage over the unpleasant habits of her husband
• The confused wife said her husband, an accountant who worked between 50 and 60 hours weekly, locks himself in the room to smoke
• The Somali lady also noted her husband would leave home to go and smoke with his friends and return home wasted

A young lady in a dilemma has sought advice online on whether to leave her marriage after four months.

Signs of depression in new marriage

The newlywed said she considered breaking up with her husband following a series of "unpleasant habits".

She noted in her post the destructive behaviours manifested after "we got married and eventually moved in together".

"All he does all day is lock himself in his room and smoke and stuff. I tried to ask him to go to the doctor because I think he’s depressed and scared, but he brushes me off. One day I even saw him crying while he tried to smoke himself to sleep. I don’t know what to do.," she shared on Reddit.

Somali lady reaches out to mum-in-law

The lady disclosed her hubby was an accountant and worked between 50 and 60 hours a week, adding he was the breadwinner.

The Somali lady added her husband "locks the door or leaves the house to smoke even more with his friends."

"I talked to his mum and my mum about his behaviour, but they told me it’s normal for a husband to be like this. He’s also really non-emotional. Nothing gets him angry or emotional, so I don’t know," she stated, adding her main concern was her husband's disappearance from home, only to return in the odd morning hours.

Social media reactions

Redditors headed to the comment section to share their views, hoping they would offer insight to the lady.

mosmani:

"This is a serious issue. Ensure not to have kids until and unless this dude is fully treated for his depression or addiction."

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"I work 80 hours a week and still try to hang out with mum and wife.

AfroSomX:

"He is avoiding his emotions."

OkChampion1295:

"You got a guy who comes home every day and works 50 hrs a week? Divorce him so I can introduce him to my cousin."

Lady seeks divorce from Nigerian husband

In another story, a lady sought divorce a few years after the wedding and wanted her husband’s cars and house.

The lady said she was no longer interested in the marriage and took her Nigerian husband to court, laying claims to his properties.

She removed all the original property documents from their safe at home without her husband's knowledge and replaced his name with hers.