Kiambu Woman Advises Men To Return Wives Who Conceive Babies Outside Marriage: "Warudishe Kwao"

• Esther Migwi has advised men to consider returning wives to their homes if they conceive children outside of marriage
• Migwi strongly advocated for a firm response from men in situations where their wives bear children with other partners while still in marriage
• She expressed scepticism towards the advice offered by what she described as "fake motivational speakers," who often advocate for forgiveness and reconciliation in such cases

Esther Migwi, a resident of Kiambu, has stirred up a heated debate by advising men to return their wives who conceive children outside of marriage to their parents.

What advice did Migwi have for men?

She argued a married woman who becomes pregnant by another man should be sent back to her parent's home and suggested that government intervention should be necessary in such cases.

Migwi's post, shared on her Facebook page, strongly suggested that men should not forgive women who have children outside of wedlock.

"Anyone you have married and they have children outside, let them go back to their parents. Don't listen to fake motivational speakers who will tell you to forgive them, no," Migwi' said.

Migwi's post further emphasised her stance, questioning the integrity of married women who bear children with men outside of their marriage, suggesting such actions are unacceptable.

"Any woman who is married and conceives a child outside should return home. Even the government should intervene and they get arrested. This has become too much," she said.

"You are married; why would you conceive another child? Yet you know you are married and have a husband," added the woman.

Migwi says men are better off marrying single mums

The post did not only target women but also touched on the behaviour of men.

She advised young men to consider marrying women with children, even if the child is not biologically theirs.

She argued that this might be better than staying with a woman who cheats and bears children outside of the marriage.

"There's nothing like maturity in them, thinking you will understand that it was a mistake. It's not a mistake because you had the confidence to sleep around without protection, yet you are married and even carry the pregnancy to term," she said.

"Huyu ni mtu mbaya (This is a bad person)," she wrote, condemning those who engage in extramarital affairs.

Migwi's controversial advice has sparked a fierce debate on social media platforms.

Netizens react to Migwi's advise

Big Wallet said:

"Kuekelea mwanaume mwingine ndiye baba ni crime kubwa sana. Texas is making a law to term it a felony with 30 years imprisonment."

shemwenani wrote:

"I love you so much my dear ukweli kabisa."

c0971 said:

"My mother always tells,ukiolewa upate mtu ako na mtoto,I have no right to talk about that child,but mwenye amezaliwa tukiwa kwa ndoa unaezareact."

BentleyMilan wrote:

"But it's ok mwanaume akizalisha nje?stop having double standards."

keym said:

"First lady to be invited in next men conference much welcome."

Kiambu woman advises couples to stay single after divorce

Migwi had earlier offered her unique perspective on post-divorce decisions for married couples.

In her message, Migwi advised that those who choose to remarry following a separation might end up regretting their decision.

Migwi emphasised the decision to remarry should be carefully weighed while pointing out that couples should consider attempting reconciliation before opting for remarriage.

"If your first marriage didn't work, just stay single because if you remarry, you will still regret," she said