Lady Still Chaste At 29, Laments Over Men Wanting Intimacy While Dating: "Don't Wanna Lose It Randomly"

• A 29-year-old single lady said finding love was hard, saying she only meets men interested in bodily pleasure
• She revealed she was chaste and had never been in a serious relationship, revealing the last man she met sent her salacious photos
• The lady said she was looking for a serious man to settle with and not just any other man who would not reciprocate her love

An unhappy woman has shared the struggles she is facing in her dating life, eliciting mixed reactions online.

Why is lady, 29, not in relationship?

The 29-year-old lady took to Reddit.com to lament about her dating experience, saying she tried her luck in dating but was not lucky because most men are after sleeping with her.

She recounted how she met this man who, after sometime, started sending her flirty messages and salacious photos, and he just wanted to hop into bed with her, yet she was still pure.

"He is very attractive to me but seems super focused on his needs. I also feel like I would not be thrilled with myself if my first encounter was with a man who just wanted me for my body. I am nowhere near ready for marriage, but some kind of casual dating would be nice - if it get serious, cool, if not, no harm, no foul. I just want an equal partnership," he said.

Reacting to the lady's post, here is what netizens had to say:

LegacyforaPotato said:

"If you are a virg*n and aren't ready to have casual s*x, then it is important to be honest and upfront about your boundaries with others. You don't have to be ashamed of your virg*n*ty, and you can still be a part of the dating world. Be clear with potential partners about what you are comfortable with, and don't let anyone pressure you into doing something you are not ready for."

Xolento posed:

"Why would you wanna move forward with a man that you already know doesn't want the same thing as you?"

CreepInTheOffice said:

"Sorry, that hear that you are having a tough time with your dates. I understand where you are coming from. It seems like everybody is so casual about something so intim*te these days, and they judge you for it."

Artogami said:

"I kept my high standards and eventually started dating a guy who was a bit older than me. I was a bit insecure about not sleeping with anyone, but when I discussed this with him after progressing the relationship for about a month, I knew his intentions were to date me long-term. I discussed the fact I was a virg*n to him, and although he was surprised, it didn’t phase him. He told me he was willing to wait for me until I was comfortable. He also assumed this meant I was inexperienced, which a deep conversation put the kabosh to that. You can be knowledgeable and have experiences without actual PIV action. A few tips that might help."

Dry-Interest-3730 said:

"It is good to have s*x as a boundary. All the guys I’ve dated, I always tell them I need emotional intimacy to get physical. If they cannot respect that, or keep pushing for that, then move on to the next

Woman, 32, laments being chaste, unable to find love

Elsewhere a lady revealed she was still a pure woman and had never been in a relationship in her entire life.

Taking to Reddit.com, the lady revealed she was picky when it came to men, and as a result, most of her dates did not go past the first one.

"I haven't been successful with dating. I'm unattractive, but I try to fix my appearance. I haven't gone past the first date. I'm used to rejection at this point. Never had a kiss, never got in relations, I haven’t even hugged a guy," she said.

The 32-year-old lady said she wanted a child and was seriously looking for a man to be with. She disclosed she had bought kids' clothes and toys over the past decade.

"I’m so frustrated. I never imagined my life would be like this. I thought I’d be married. I’ve been asking guys out for fifteen years. Nothing good has happened. I don’t even try to get guys that are way too hot for me. I ask out normal guys."